My love for psychology is applied through my job as a Learning Support Assistant for young children with Special Educational Needs. Having done this job for about half a decade now, I have learned some valuable lessons along the way.
1. Background Knowledge Is Important
Working with children with Special Needs is not easy. Background knowledge of their condition is very important in order to at least have an idea why they are doing the things they are doing, how they are thinking, how best to discipline them and more importantly, how best to help them acheive their full potential.
2. Experience is Invaluable
While I highlighted the importance of background knowledge, experience on the job is still paramount. Some of the teaching staff that I have worked with do not have a Psychology degree but they knew far more than me how to handle difficult situations. Whilst on the job, you will learn a multitude of ways in how to deal with conflicts between children. You’ll learn different ways on how to teach specific topics. More importantly, you’ll learn different ways of communicating with different children.
3. View Them As Individuals, not As Diseases/Disorders
Again, I know that this sounds rather obvious as well as it being a cliche, but some people (possibly due to the lack of knowledge about a disorder) avoid interactions with children with SEN because of their disorders.
4. Each Child Requires A Unique Set of Strategies
There is not one set of strategies that will work for every single child with Special Needs. If you have ten pupils in your class, regardless of whether they have the same diagnoses of conditions or not, you need 10 diferent sets of strategies in order to help them reach their full potential. Some children for instance, might like verbal praise, some might like written and subtle praise.
5. Avoid Comparing Children with Special Needs to Mainstream Ones
I understand that this is a delicate subject, but I’ll attempt to address it anyway. Comparing children with SEN (Special Educational Needs) to mainstream ones run the risk of possible discrimination and de-motivation in their part, and frustration in your part. It is widely researched that the two groups have different developmental trajectory, and as a result (in my opinion), should not be compared. It is always nice to see someone with SEN perform as well as or even better than their mainstream counterparts but still, I think comparisons should be avoided.
6. SEN Children are Capable of Academic Acheivements
I mentioned that children with SEN have a different developmental trajectory. But this should not deter you from expecting them to acheive academically.
7. Patience
I developed an extremely long patience whilst being on this job. One has to realise that some things like giving a verbal response, which seems fairly easy for all of us, takes so much more effort in the children’s part. Also, there are some conditions which cause children to be totally unaware of the consequences of their actions. In these cases, you need to be extremely patient and keep in mind that they do not intend to irritate or offend you.
8. Communicate With The Parents
This again may be limited or even prohibited depending on each case or school policy. With caution, those woking with children with SEN should communicate with parents to give each other advice on how best to manage situations, let each other know about events that happened that may trigger certain behaviours in the child’s part. Communication also helps reassure each other.
9. Don’t Get Too Attached
Being assigned to a specific child or group of children for years can make one become really attached to them. LSAs and classroom assistants know the children assigned to them far better than anybody else in the school. However, being too attached to them may lead to you being too lenient on them, or maybe removing your objectivity when it comes to assessing them.
One has to keep in mind that in almost all of the cases, the job of LSAs and Teaching Assistants are making the kids independent learners. This means that our job is to make sure that these children that we work with no longer need our help when they leave school or hopefully before that.
10. You Can’t Always Win
As positive as I want to be, the reality is, you can’t change everything. At the time of writing, we still don’t know what causes autism and how to treat it. There is no known cure for Down Syndrome that I am aware of. As much as we like to take away these conditions from the children, we can’t. All we can do is to manage their situations as best as we could. There are also some cases that no matter how hard we try, we cannot solve. Sometimes, we have to refer them to other professionals who can help them far better than we can.
So…
Even with the last point in mind, I still would love to carry on helping children acheive their full potential, be it socially or academically. I love seeing their bright smiles everyday and I hope that all of you would (already do) too!